the Fall Out
I just found out that my ex detailed the worst parts of our relationship, including the embarrassing events of our break up, to our mutual friend. Well, my friend, his colleague. He never liked my ex.
I had sent white tulips, with a note of apology, a hope for friendship later on down the line. Around the same time, he’s trashing me over dinner and drinks, just another night out, another evisceration of someone’s reputation.
Christ. When will I ever learn?
Was it wrong of my friend to have shared that with me? I just wish this wasn’t part of my consciousness anymore.
Mine slept with a “friend.” We should drink ginger martinis. Lots. Let’s chat.
While I have no idea of the full situation, it sounds like your friend was letting you know in case the ex was telling others this stuff too - this way you could judge for yourself if you needed to let the ex know to stop.
Not sure if I’m anywhere near the ball on that one, but maybe close…?
Yeah - could be, tho in this particular case, I’m almost 100% sure the whole of his immediate sphere already knows.
Blah. It’s blowing over in any case.
What a jerk. I think the flowers were a nice move. Most guys wouldn’t want to bring that up. Tard. And did someone say GINGER MARTINIS?!?
I’ll just hang an “undate-able” sign around my neck and make out with a new guy each week. Whatever. I’m so over it.